How Do I get Girl I like to quit being a stripper?

So this is weird bc my best friends dad owns a few strip clubs here in miami and we always hang out there drink for free, etc...well Ive been seeing this one outside, going on dates for a while and i really like her but everytime i bring up having her switch from stripper to waitress she gets mad but I cant take seeing her dance for other guys and im always there.......the money is actually about the same, she said she enjoys being a stripper and doesnt like being told what to do.....i really like this girl and want something serious with her and Im a good guy,educated(MBA),successful,young but why cant she see that Im worth quitting for and besides that im trying to help her get her life together